A friend of mine and I have been hanging out a lot together later and it could be said that we, in our own way, are kind of man-haters. Essentially, I don't hate men but their way of being perplexes me and their attitudes, often, rub me the wrong way. I believe this is what makes me so picky about the men that I hang out with. And if I discover that "macho male" mentality, I quickly discard them.
I find that, far too often, men initially appear to be nice and pretty much caring and then, after one gets to know them, that they become all about the sex thing. While this isn't always true yet it seems that I encounter these men all too often. Sometimes, I just feel like giving up on them altogether.
Some people say that I am lucky that men trust me enough to tell me anything about themselves and that it must be nice that they feel comfortable enough to talk to me honestly. Well, I guess it is but it, more often than not, becomes a way for them to spill their guts about their girlfriends or about girls that they like. The truth is that I don't mind talking with them but they really should be talking to their girlfriends or telling those girls that they like them instead of using me as a sounding board. I mean, it's great for them to tell me all about that stuff but it makes me feel like I just don't rate. Like I am not good enough for them or I am not pretty enough or sexy enough for them to think about me in any other way than a confidante or a big sister. And I am going to start telling them so...
Also, why is it that all men think that some single woman should be interested in them on the pretext that they are alone? Why is that men just assume that women want to be with them? What's with all of the delusions?
Face it, you guys out there, the only thing that we REALLY need men for is to procreate and to tell the truth, we don't really need the men, we need the sperm only. Now, if we CHOOSE to share our lives a man, that is different. Any man that has found that special woman should consider himself lucky to have her in his life.
I just want to let you know that I am not really a man-hater. I just like those men that are honest about themselves right from the start. There is enough dishonesty in this world that we could all start with ourselves and set off a worldwide epidemic of honesty. I also wouldn't mind hearing from some of you on this issue.
For those of you out there reading, have a wonderful day.
Take care and I will write again soon. I promise.
I find that, far too often, men initially appear to be nice and pretty much caring and then, after one gets to know them, that they become all about the sex thing. While this isn't always true yet it seems that I encounter these men all too often. Sometimes, I just feel like giving up on them altogether.
Some people say that I am lucky that men trust me enough to tell me anything about themselves and that it must be nice that they feel comfortable enough to talk to me honestly. Well, I guess it is but it, more often than not, becomes a way for them to spill their guts about their girlfriends or about girls that they like. The truth is that I don't mind talking with them but they really should be talking to their girlfriends or telling those girls that they like them instead of using me as a sounding board. I mean, it's great for them to tell me all about that stuff but it makes me feel like I just don't rate. Like I am not good enough for them or I am not pretty enough or sexy enough for them to think about me in any other way than a confidante or a big sister. And I am going to start telling them so...
Also, why is it that all men think that some single woman should be interested in them on the pretext that they are alone? Why is that men just assume that women want to be with them? What's with all of the delusions?
Face it, you guys out there, the only thing that we REALLY need men for is to procreate and to tell the truth, we don't really need the men, we need the sperm only. Now, if we CHOOSE to share our lives a man, that is different. Any man that has found that special woman should consider himself lucky to have her in his life.
I just want to let you know that I am not really a man-hater. I just like those men that are honest about themselves right from the start. There is enough dishonesty in this world that we could all start with ourselves and set off a worldwide epidemic of honesty. I also wouldn't mind hearing from some of you on this issue.
For those of you out there reading, have a wonderful day.
Take care and I will write again soon. I promise.
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